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Learn by Listening

Pull a rabbit out of your hat

One my close friends made the comment “You’re usually able to pull rabbits out of your hat”, after I just offered a solution to a problem he has been trying to solve. The reason I am able do this really has very little to do with magic. I just know a solution exists, or there is a library to help get the job done. That sounds magical, but really in truth its just because I exposed myself to the concept, library, or technique.

Simply being exposed to a concept can be nearly as powerful as learning the concept in great detail. Listening to Podcasts you get exposed to many skills you may not have otherwise picked up.

You are the sum of the 5 people you hang out with most often

We tend to emulate the people we like most, its called “mirroring”,· this is why husbands and wives tend to look like each other. It’s not because they actually have similar genetics, its because overtime they tend to make the same facial expressions and mirror each other.

I learned of this powerful psychological concept years ago, and I since then I make an effort to surround myself with people I know will be a good influence on me. It turns out your mother was right! You shouldn’t hang around with people you wouldn’t want to be like.

We mirror people mentally, this is why a son will·almost inevitably say something his father would have said. We are the product of the people·we surround ourselves with. This is just a fact of how we work in social settings. We can’t alwayssurround ourselves with the most brilliant scientists or the best programmers in the world, but we can do the next best thing. We can listen to podcasts where they talk about their ideas and have conversations about programming topics. While this is not as good as talking directly to them, many of the benefits will show up. You will gain insight into their thought patterns and potentially pick up some of these patterns. You will be introduced to new ideas and be forced to question your current positions.

This might seem a bit far fetched and that this cannot come from just listening to podcasts, but in these effects are more subtle than you realize. You may never have noticed that you can your friend both seem to take a sip of coffee at the same time. Perhaps you thought it was coincidence that you both had the idea to go to Starbucks. Somehow you seem to be in sync with your best friends. Much of the time I listen to podcasts and I find myself being able to call on concepts, news, phases, or techniques I have heard them talk about on the shows. The psychological effects of mirroring are extremely powerful and can be used to your benefit.

here are some of my favorite podcasts:

Ruby Rogues
Javascript Jabber
Ruby on Rails Podcast
Ruby 5 - Ruby News
5 Minutes of Javascript
Codenewbie Podcast
Ruby Steps Podcast